After the move, I was energized to do new things.
I have found this to be true for myself. I garden, tend chickens, make bread and many other things I did not enjoy before. I am thankful for the changes God has brought into my life.
I feel content.
I feel free.
After dinner the two big girls went out exploring the back 5 of the property. They came running back panting excitedly! “Angel saved our lives!” “Angel was snuffing a snake for us!” “She saved us!”
Of course, you don’t take that quietly. (well on the inside I am SCREAMING, but on the outside I have the raised eyebrow thing going on.) Sammy asks the good questions, “What color was it?” “How big was it?” They said it was a long red, yellow and black snake. (There are a Few snakes that I know… Coral red and yella kill a fella and a rattlesnake.) From their description, the former seemed to be the one. OF course, I have a freak out moment in me heart.
The girls are screeching for us to come see the snake Angel killed. So rubber boots, a hoe and some enthusiasm and we were off! On the way we did some berry picking and when we arrived, we saw her prize. She had done her duty and she was done with it. We reminded the girls again that they have to be ever vigilant with where they are and what they are doing. Always watchful and aware. We kinda have to do that in life don’t we? Be aware and alert. Watching for the enemy who seeks to steal kill and destroy? (John 10 and I Peter 5)
Are there times when in the distance, you hear someone calling your name? Are you actually listening? Do you care?
Then you realize the person is right next to you, repeating your name and calling you. “MOM! MOM! MOM! Can you hear me? I am talking to you. MOM?!”. Is there a frustration that builds as they pull you from your own blissful world of silence?
Being a stay at home mom can be a challenge at times. There is a constant barrage of questions and answers that trickle in through the calm. Constant redirection and correction are your tools. Little rears, little noses and little hands that all need attention NOW!
Little lips are kissing my arm like one of those water pecking birds.
I am in the midst of doing some chore. The other two are speaking as they increase the decibel level by 10 so that they can be louder than the other to get my attention. The garden needs to be watered. Five piles of semi folded laundry are scattered in the living room. Dinner is in the oven and the dishwasher is in over drive.
Then someone announces, “The dog just rolled in horse poo mom and she wants to come in!”
“NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! DON’T LET HER IN!!!”
“Hi Angel.” (In a very gushy talking to the dog voice. Those who have dogs, know what I am talking about!)
“OUT! OUT! OUT!”
“Mom, she wanted to say hi.”
“She can say hi from the door next time.”
(True story) 🙂
Do you feel like you just can’t listen anymore because you are so frustrated with life going on all around you?
Do you feel like Fly Paper?
Turn this situation around to yourself. Imagine you are with a friend or a spouse having lunch or a coffee. You are chatting away only to realize they did not hear a word you said. Shock and dismay are pretty common reactions here. Feeling unimportant to them is another.
I really like to speak and be heard. I really like to listen. I have to remember though, that even though my children are little, they are still little people. They do need to be heard. I am training them by my actions and reactions how to be adult listeners.
Am I showing them that is ok not to listen while someone is speaking to them?
Am I making them feel special, because I am taking time from my busy day to demonstrate the same love that I want to be showered with?
There is a great responsibility before us as we raise children to be good listeners.
Lend your ear today. Listen to what the little people are saying. 🙂
Lord, let me be a good example to my children today. Guide me as I teach and instruct them in Your ways. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
James 1:19-20 NIV “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.”