“Those who guard their lips, preserve their lives, but those who speak rashly will come to ruin.” Proverbs 13:3
This verse gave me such a mental picture! I saw a person flailing and splashing about in the water. Screaming and yelling, though I am not sure if it was out of fear or anger. Fear of being alone. Fear of past or present. Fear and anger that nothing ever done is good enough. Fear that the kids won’t succeed. Fear that always keep friends pushed away, because we don’t want them to see the evil in our hearts. Or just because we are sinful, hurt people. Fear consumes.
Regardless of the craziness, the first part of the verse, “those who guard their lips, preserve their lives.” struck me with full force.
Our words build up, encourage, tear down and hurt all out of the same mouth.
The latter part of the verse talks about bringing ruin. Not just ruin for us, but also for those around us. This was a painful blog to write about, because of this very thing I am guilty. Perhaps this is the reason I was led to write these words?
I have a challenge. Let’s watch the faces of those we love, crumple as we speak loudly and rudely. Let’s watch as they shine and sparkle as we encourage them. Let us see their hearts fly as we encourage them. Or, see them chained to the pain as we yell mercilessly.
I want to be a life-preserver. Not one who brings ruin.